Love is unpredictable. Loving someone knows no boundaries. Yesterday, most of us were shocked with the commercial of Jollibee, those heartbreaks really broke our hearts. It became trending since a lot of netizens are reacting. But wait, isn’t it good commercial? Loving someone secretly is the hardest thing to do. Yes, I myself know that. Sometimes, you come to a point in life when you realize that loving from a distance is the only way you can love someone who’s special to you. I don’t mean the kind of distance-relationship. I mean when you have to choose to love someone from a distance because they can’t be yours.
The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being. The excruciating pain of missing someone is really hard to cope up. Love is not about being togetherness.
Sometimes, we feel bad because someone chose to love someone and you were just a friend to him or to her. Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
You don’t have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow: If you lose love that doesn’t mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.